In the heart of England, where the hum of city life mingles with the vibrant rhythms of Punjabi culture, Harpreet Dhillon is quietly weaving new love stories.
Born in Birmingham and now settled in Leicester, Harpreet’s life is a tapestry of public service, creativity, and deep-rooted tradition. She is a magistrate, a bid manager, a mother of two—and, most recently, a sought-after matchmaker for the Sikh community.
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Harpreet Dhillon has always been in the business of bringing people together. A joyful and warm-hearted woman, she’s now channelling that natural instinct into something more formal—and heartfelt—through her new venture, Happie Hearts.
Launched in March, Happie Hearts is a bespoke matchmaking service designed exclusively for Sikhs, offering a personal, thoughtful alternative to the world of swipes and superficial connections. It’s a natural evolution of something Harpreet has done informally for nearly a decade—but this year, she decided to turn passion into purpose.
“Growing up, I saw my mum doing a lot of matchmaking among friends and their children,” Harpreet recalls. “It was just always in our household. When I became an adult, I carried it on with my own friends and family and realised—I’m really passionate about this.”
Harpreet is no stranger to wearing multiple hats. A bid manager by profession and a magistrate of seven years, she balances her many roles with grace. But perhaps the most fulfilling role of all is that of a matchmaker—one that she describes as a “big responsibility” but a deeply rewarding one.
“So far, I’ve probably brought together about a dozen people. A couple are married with children, some are just starting out, and others have been dating for months. Fingers crossed they all find their happy ever after,” she says, smiling.
Although born in Birmingham, Harpreet’s roots were firmly planted in Leicester when her family moved there in the late 1980s. It’s where she grew up, went to school and college, and it’s where she now raises her two daughters. “I just love it. Leicester is so diverse, and over the years it’s only become more so. It’s home.”
She studied Business and Management at Aston University in Birmingham, commuting back and forth due to homesickness. “I tried staying there but couldn’t – my heart was always in Leicester,” she admits.
Harpreet comes from a close-knit Punjabi family and proudly carries the values of that upbringing into her matchmaking work: respect, connection, and tradition.
What sets Happie Hearts apart is not just its exclusive focus on the Sikh community, but Harpreet’s personal approach. Tired of the “chaos” she saw in informal WhatsApp matchmaking groups—where private data was passed around casually—she wanted to bring professionalism, privacy, and empathy to the process.
“I dig deep,” she says. “Yes, I’ll ask for physical preferences, but I’m more interested in their values, interests, emotional intelligence—even their past relationships. What worked? What didn’t? That helps me understand who they really are and what they need.”
Her bespoke discovery sessions can even involve scrolling through a client’s Instagram or LinkedIn to get a feel for their personality. The matchmaking itself is meticulous. “I’m not churning out matches. I take my time. It’s not about volume—it’s about quality.”
Harpreet sees a positive shift in today’s dating landscape—especially among younger people.
“Looks used to dominate, but now people are looking for deeper traits—good communication, shared values, emotional maturity. That’s encouraging,” she says. Still, both men and women have high expectations. “The bar has been raised across the board.”
She’s not afraid to challenge dated thinking either—including the often sensitive topic of caste. “I absolutely respect preferences, but I do gently challenge them too. You could be missing out on someone amazing if you narrow your criteria too much.”
For many clients, Harpreet is not just a matchmaker—she’s a confidante. “Some have been heartbroken or had painful experiences. My role goes beyond matchmaking—I support them, coach them, encourage them to get back out there.”
Her method is personal, detailed, and caring. She asks the hard questions, filters the options, and even occasionally approaches potential singles in everyday settings—be it the gym or gurdwara. “I’ve definitely been known to politely ask someone if they’re single!” she laughs.
Ultimately, Happie Hearts is more than a business—it’s Harpreet’s calling. What started as a hobby has now blossomed into a full-fledged service with hopes of becoming her full-time role.
“If your job is your passion, it never feels like work,” she says. “This is something I genuinely love. And I’d love to see it grow.”
Her message to the Sikh community is simple but powerful: “You’ve got someone out there now who’s going to do all the hard work for you—the filtering, the awkward questions, the searching. Let me find your perfect match.”
The need for her services is clear. According to the 2021 Census, more than 520,000 Sikhs live in England, making Sikhism the country’s fourth-largest religion. For many families, finding a partner who shares their values and cultural background is a priority. Harpreet’s approach is personal and bespoke—she meets each client, listens to their hopes and concerns, and works tirelessly to find matches that truly fit. “It’s not just about ticking boxes,” she says. “It’s about understanding people’s hearts.”
Those who know her describe Harpreet Dhillon as humble, approachable, and deeply committed to her community. “She’s the person you call when you need advice, or just someone to listen,” says a close friend. “Now, she’s helping people find happiness in the most important part of their lives.”
As she brings together couples and families, Harpreet is also strengthening the fabric of the Sikh community in the Midlands and beyond. Her story is a reminder that tradition and modernity can coexist—and that sometimes, the most meaningful journeys begin at home.
With each match she makes, Harpreet Dhillon is not just creating new beginnings—she’s ensuring the rich spirit of her community endures for generations to come.
For more information, visit www.happiehearts.co.uk or find Happie Hearts on Instagram, Facebook, and LinkedIn.
